So what if more American restaurants followed suit and started to pay waiters and waitresses a salary?
First, the obvious: Menu prices would be higher. Without tipping, restaurants would be forced to raise the price of dishes. And yes, we all know that we'll have to pay that 15 to 20 percent extra at the end of the meal, but when you're ordering, it's out of sight, out of mind.
Funny enough, studies show that all-inclusive restaurants—where 15-percent service costs are built in to the menu pricing—are perceived by diners to be higher-priced, according to Mike Lynn, a professor of consumer behavior and marketing at the Cornell University School of Hotel Administration.
"It's true even with 20-percent tippers, even though the all-inclusive restaurant would have been cheaper for them," he said. "Diners don't like being forced to do anything."
And think about it: With tipping, diners are paying different amounts for the exact same meal, Lynn points out—which means more generous customers are being penalized. A recent survey even found that 63 percent of Americans felt pressure to tip even when the service was bad.
So, score one for restaurants. But customers benefit from tipping, too, through the old rewards-and-motivation system.
"More competent servers want to work for tips," Lynn says, whereas the "slackers" tend to prefer the flat-salary system.
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Take away tipping and you run the risk of taking away good service, which is exactly what is happening in some touristy areas, like Miami Beach. For years, restaurants there have been tacking on an automatic 18-percent service charge, mainly to keep foreign visitors who may be unaware of American tipping customs from stiffing waitstaff.
Service in those places always seemed a little lacking to me, and a Miami restaurant manager, who asked not to be identified, confirmed my suspicions.
"The service is really, really not very good on the beach—and a lot of that is due to the tip being included, the manager said. "If you don't have to work really hard and you're getting the money anyway, that's what happens."
Waiters at her restaurant, which is still on the tip system, would be on the fence about abolishing it, she adds—they bring home an average of $180 a night for about six hours of work, but that can easily run $200 to $300 on a Friday or Saturday night. To make comparable money on salary, servers would have to make about $30 an hour, she estimates.
And while there are the customers who have stiffed waiters on a $280 bill—leaving the waiter to tip bartenders and food runners out of pocket, essentially losing money on a table—there are those nights where a super-generous customer will tip $100 on a $200 bill.
"The most appealing thing about this job," she says, "is that you can make a lot of money in a short amount of time."
So in the end, as dreamy as it would be to not have to end a delicious meal on a sour note with multiplication and decimal points, I came around on our tipping system. Overall, it seems financially better for the waiter, provides better service for the customer and gets us to order more liberally, which is better for the owner.
Mostly, I think tipping is just too ingrained into our psyche. After all, this is America, where we expect that our hard work will be rewarded with better pay. What's more capitalistic than that?
—By Tracy Saelinger, TODAY.com/money.
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