Retail work is known to have undesirable hours, with employees often having to work weekends and late nights, depending on the retailer. And outside of retail, plenty of professionals and small business owners have had to work on days that we haven't wanted to, which perhaps caused us to miss an important engagement or occasion. It's far from ideal, but sometimes we have to make sacrifices and determine priorities among conflicts when it comes to our personal and professional lives.
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That being said, what I truly hope happens in my heart of hearts, is that this massive retail test is an abysmal failure. The reality is that if consumers don't show up and spend in a meaningful way this year, retailers won't do it again next year. Yes, this is another example of the consumers driving the business decisions. A business won't offer these early hours on a holiday if there aren't a drove of people taking advantage of them.
I personally have a Black Friday tradition of avoiding the stores like the plague and I am going to extend that tradition to this Thursday as well. There is so little time to spend reflecting on thanks and to be with loved ones, that the prospect of trading it for a running-with-the-bulls stampede of strangers that smell like turkey and stuffing knocking each other over to save a few bucks on a flat screen television seems incomprehensible.
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Not to mention that with technology, you can now shop 24/7 on your phone, tablet or computer. So why rush through the pumpkin pie and forgo the Steelers vs. Ravens game to participate in this consumerist madness?
As consumers, we always vote with our wallets and that vote counts with businesses. If you keep yourself—and your wallet—physically out of the stores, you can help to preserve Thanksgiving as a time when we can be truly thankful for the intangible things that actually matter, instead of turning the holiday into an excuse to spend more money.
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—By Carol Roth. Carol Roth is a CNBC contributor, a "recovering" investment banker and author of "The Entrepreneur Equation." Follow her on Twitter