I've worked in all sorts of jobs, from a grocery store clerk, professional bubble blower, Disney cast member, and a can of beans, to a legal studies teaching assistant and Marketing Director. Heck, I've even spent a few days cleaning carpets and urinals. I have had a spectrum of experiences, ranging from neat-o to nightmare-ish.
We all have to start somewhere. And for some, those experiences shape you, refine you, help you to become a kinder, more compassionate human being. You can talk about them (like I am right now) with humour, fondness, and a little bit of "What was I thinking???"
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But what happens when you can't let go? When you've settled into a career that should have been abandoned long ago, but you're holding on for dear life in fear that you won't find anything better, that you're not worthy of your career dreams, or, worst of all, that you deserve unhappiness.
I have never been happier career-wise in my entire life. But not only did it take scrubbing toilets and dressing up as a can of beans to get to this place, it also took willingness to let go, move on, and trust in my abilities when the dream changed.
The most important thing I've learned over time is this:
There is nothing more excruciatingly painful than feeling trapped in a life that you've drifted into.