But first impressions go far beyond what you wear. So we asked them about the common mistakes people make that can instantly destroy a first impression — and how to change those bad habits once and for all.
"I never hire anyone I don't trust, and I always form my first impression of someone based on their eye contact. If you want someone to trust you, you better look them straight in the eye.
A good handshake is also key. It isn't so much about firmness, it's about making sure the skin between your thumb and forefinger connects with the other person's hand in the same spot. That connection signals that you're confident and trustworthy."
"Kindness goes a long way. I still remember all the show business folks who were mean to me early in my career, as well as the ones who took my hand and gave me advice.
I once hung out with a friend who was a big celebrity, and a fan approached him for an autograph. When he gave it to them without even turning around to look at them, I saw the hatred on his fan's face."
You never forget kindness, but you often hear things like, 'I got in an elevator with so-and-so, and they didn't even say hi.' Now they hate that person for the rest of their life."
"To build rapport and credibility quickly, ask open-ended questions.
For example, find out how the other person got started in their industry or ended up in their job role or city. Ask about their goals and dreams to see how you can help them, with questions like, 'Where do you want to be in 10 years?'
You'll get to know the person better, communicate that you're thoughtful and curious, and grow your knowledge."
"A first impression doesn't start the second you meet someone. It begins with your reputation, which you build over time with above-average performance. Then when you finally meet that person, your reputation precedes you."
"It's not enough to be interesting. You have to be interested. Why? Because what really drives a person is themselves. So make your conversation about them.
Ask what they do, why they do it, and what they want to accomplish. Save your pitch on how you can add value to their lives for future encounters, which you'll get if you don't blow the first one.
And don't forget to give them your business card — ideally with your picture on it — so they have a way to follow up with you. But remember: It's ultimately your job to follow up with them."
"When you're humble and generous, you'll build a loyal community around you. It's a give-and-take in the business world, but we must first learn to give. The more you can offer your services, knowledge, connections, and time to others, the more they will give in return."
"I'm enthusiastic by nature, but I used to hold back because I wanted to seem 'cool' — until I realized my enthusiasm is actually one of my most valuable assets.
It's so important to identify your strongest skills and showcase them proudly. If you're an eloquent speaker, speak often. If you're a great listener, ask lots of questions. But you also need to avoid overemphasizing them.
"Years ago, if I met someone new, I would act like I had valuable insight and quickly steer the topic toward what I could offer. Over time, however, I learned to listen more and only speak when the timing is right and when I have something genuinely valuable or insightful to say."
"The poet Maya Angelou once said, 'People will never forget how you make them feel.'
Those words are so true. I've been offered great opportunities in the first meeting because someone 'had a good feeling' about me. My strategy is be my most authentic self, instead of trying too hard to impress them (which is something I see so many people do)."
—Andrea Callanan, musician-turned-entrepreneur; voice, confidence, and success coach, author of "You Are Meant for More," and founder of employee engagement company Inspire Me. Follow her on Facebook and Instagram.
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