Are you on Facebook? Do you have a smartphone? Ever send text messages? How about emails? If you answered yes to any of those questions — and who among us would not — your life is an open book. And it doesn't really matter how careful you are about all those privacy settings.

"They used to say Big Brother is watching, but it's not just Big Brother, it's sister, mother, father, friends, co-worker, boss," said Darrin Giglio, chief investigator at North American Investigations in New York.