Managing Life's Milestones With Technology

There's nothing like changing technologyfor help in negotiating the financial hurdles that come with major life changes.


Expectant mothers can choose from hundreds of apps, including BabyBump Pregnancy Pro, which provides information on the entire process, from common pregnancy symptoms to a contraction tracker.

You’ll even find a handful of apps to help you prepare for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Davka Corp. offers iBless Torah, a $2 iPhone/iPod Touch app that provides instructions on the Torah and Haftarah blessings.

Mobility is a key driver behind such tools, whether you’re buying a home or saving for college.

“The nature of a mobile device is that it’s always with you, and people want information anytime and anywhere,” says Jennifer Wong, cofounder and chief executive officer of Alt12 Apps, the maker of BabyBump Pregnancy Pro.

While mobile apps in particular are popular tools, there are Web sites and other technology services that can help guide consumers through the financial hurdles that come with some of life’s major milestones.

Here's a snapshot of three big subjects.


With the average cost of a wedding sitting at $27,800, according to, consumers are always looking for ways to keep their budgets under control. A pair of iPhone apps are designed to help.

iWedding Deluxe features manual and automatic budget controls. The app tracks the cost of every item you enter and includes a dudget assistant that places each item in the relevant category.

Bridal Binder includes a tool that compares your estimated budget to your actual spending. You can allocate budgets for individual categories, such as stationery or flowers, and the app will alert you when you go over budget in any category.

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Of course, wedding costs also depend on the number of people attending. Streaming video technology allows live remote viewing. Couples can book a small venue and still have a large audience. Guests don’t have to travel great distances to attend, making it a good option for couples planning destination weddings.

Marry Me Live offers streaming video services through its network of videographers in 12 metropolitan markets, including New York, Los Angeles, and Austin, TX. The service includes on-demand video for 30 days after the ceremony, unlimited viewers, and a virtual guest book.

“This is a value that people didn’t necessarily know about,” says Stacy Yamaoka, cofounder of Marry Me Live. “The technology is evolving in a way that makes it more accessible.”


Getting divorced is often more expensive and complicated than people imagine. That’s why Dallas-based divorce attorney Michelle May O’Neil and divorce accountant Bryan Rice created, which offers two related iPhone apps.

The first, Cost & Prep, provides guidance on the cost of a divorce and the documents you’ll need to prepare for your case.

“It has a calculator that can help somebody figure out what the hidden costs of getting divorced are, like having two houses and transportation to haul the kids around—all the things somebody might not consider in the total cost of getting a divorce,” O’Neil says. “Knowing what documents you need to get together for your lawyer, that can be helpful in saving you a buck or two here and there.”

The other app is Estate Divider, which assists with calculating the costs associated with dividing assets.

Life Changes - A CNBC Special Report
Life Changes - A CNBC Special Report

“They can put in their assets, their debts, and then play with what a decision might look like if you gave the husband this car, the wife that credit card,” O’Neil explains. “It generates a spreadsheet that shows what this proposed division might look like. I’ve recommended Estate Divider to a few people who would have wanted to hire me but couldn’t afford my services, and they’ve indicated that it helped them accomplish the goal and save some money at the same time.”

Both apps cost $9.99. O’Neil says she and Rice have a third app in development. “It’s going to be a possession calendar to help people who are divorced with children to have an app for possession schedule—changing weekends, and those types of things that everyone has to deal with.”


The funeral industry isn’t known for its technologically-forward thinking. But that’s starting to change. In The Light Urns, an online retailer of caskets and cremation urns, offers the Funeral Advice mobile app for iPhone and Android users.

Along with providing advice, such as appropriate words of sympathy and the steps to take to plan a funeral, the app includes a casket and cremation urn shop.

“The cost of products from our online shop is less than a brick and mortar funeral home,” says Tyler Fraser, general manager of In The Light Urns. “Just being able to look at products and get an idea of what kind of prices are out there for urns and caskets compared to what their local funeral home is providing is helpful.”

Fraser says Funeral Advice will soon be updated with a video tutorial on how to finance a funeral.

Plan Your Own Funeral

Using technology to plan a funeral will become even more prevalent as baby boomers demand nontraditional send-offs, according to Sue Kruskopf.

In 2008, Kruskopf and Nancy Bush created the site My Wonderful Life to help individuals plan their own funerals.

After setting up a free account, customers fill out a “book,” answering questions ranging from how you want your remains to be handled to favorite songs to distribution of possessions. You can choose up to six “angels” to carry out your wishes. The site sends your angels an e-mail with a link to your instructions.

Life Changes - A CNBC Special Report
Life Changes - A CNBC Special Report

“What really makes it unique is that when your loved one passes away, you click on a link and get a summary of every single thing that person wanted,” Kruskopf says. “You know how much of a gift that is for people to not have to guess?”

Kruskopf says My Wonderful Life has about 10,000 registered members. Along with easing the emotional burden, My Wonderful Life can also help with financial matters.

“There’s a section where you can let people know where all your stuff is,” Kruskopf says. “Letting people know where their important documents and possessions are and who you want them to go to.”

Kruskopf says she’s hoping to ease even more of the financial burden with future updates to the site.

“A lot of our members want to prepay for their funeral, but they don’t want to go through the traditional channels, so we’re looking at some options,” she says. “If you came down to the fact that the loved ones can print out a summary and then, by the way, it’s already paid for, how awesome would that be? Talk about taking a huge burden off of the survivors.”