Sellers are, in fact, reducing the list price at a much higher rate than at this time last year, according to Redfin, a real estate brokerage and analytics firm.
"Sellers are finally getting the word that this is a different market than 2013," said Nela Richardson, Redfin's chief economist. "We are seeing the gradual end of multiple offers, and escalation clauses are becoming a thing of the past in all but the most desirable markets."
That leaves mortgage rates as the wild card as the housing recovery enters the fall season, a period historically driven by first-time buyers. Those buyers have been disproportionately hard hit by the recession and slowest to return to the market. Rates are still low, but buyers today are extremely sensitive to the slightest moves.
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"It never ceases to amaze me how hung up mortgage borrowers can be on rate," said Matthew Graham of Mortgage News Daily. "In fact, a lot of times we have to remind them that the .125 percent difference in rate only amounts to X dollars and they're surprised."
The average contract rate on the 30-year fixed mortgage has moved slightly lower in recent weeks, as the yield on the 10-year Treasury shrinks. It hovers just above 4 percent, but can't seem to break lower, through to that psychologically significant 3 percent range. Rates loosely follow that yield but are also influenced by changing mortgage finance policy and a smorgasbord of fees inflicted on lenders by Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, which largely fuel the mortgage market today.
There is also uncertainty surrounding Fannie and Freddie's future and the future of their mortgage-backed securities.
"As a rule, uncertainty hurts value," added Graham.
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Rates are not at rock bottom, so there is no great incentive for a buyer to jump now to take advantage of the lowest rate. They are also not rising, so there is no incentive to buy based on fear that rates will go higher. The argument could also be made that rising rates would be the outcome of an improving economy, and that improvement would be a stronger driver for homebuyers ... stronger than the extra cost of rising rates in a monthly payment.
All of this is why there seems to be equal gangs of bulls and bears in the housing market today. Some claim affordability is still good enough to drive demand through the fall and into 2015. Others claim rising rates, weak income growth and a conservative lending environment will stall the market in its tracks. And that's just the demand side. The supply side is another story.
—By CNBC's Diana Olick