Three questions can't resolve every issue, but they can surface key pain, what you prize most and what's possible. As for the solutions: Reach right now for your calendar and your resolve. If your marriage is limping, clear time for it and protect that time like your top client. Your children, your health, your soul? Cross off less important calendar items, double up on others, and make what's priceless untouchable. You've just ID'd your biggest assets. Their protection has to be your priority, and it won't just happen.
Neither will work with meaning. Getting to it will take more time clearing your calendar, and you won't be sorry. This journey is eminently doable. And your destination — work with enriching purpose — will be as individual and as specific to your gifts, talents and proclivities as your fingerprint.
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Anyone can reinvent themselves in mid-career no matter what type of business they are in. Even those on the fast-track of success decide to take a different path. Here are two examples.
Scott Boyer, across decades at powerhouses such as Abbott Labs and Bristol Meyers, saw that "global" sales meant sales to developed countries, mostly in the West. Remaining nations fell into the ROW — rest of world — column, tallying about 75 percent of people on the planet. Scott designed and pioneered a business model to sell epilepsy meds in the United States and channel profits into education, diagnosis and epilepsy treatment in the ROW. Staying in his industry, Scott restored a broken system past its original purpose to help people once with no hope.
David Miller, who never separated faith and business, started out in international business and finance. In his second half, he combined them in a new way, trading the London Stock Exchange for a Ph.D. in theology. His "second half" is at Princeton University's Faith & Works initiative, which he founded and heads. Among other things, he also is ethics advisor to CitiGroup worldwide.
Without radically shifting their careers, these two executives were successful in creating a second half defined by joy, impact and balance. And they did so using the talents and skills they acquired during the first half of their career — moving from just making money to making a difference. Once you determine your purpose and figure out how to use your skills to help humanity, the results will be amazing.
Dean Niewolny is CEO of The Halftime Institute and author of the new book Trade Up: How to Move from Just Making Money to Making a Difference. Niewolny spent 23 years in executive roles with three of Wall Street's largest financial firms before joining the organization that helps men and women reimagine the second half of their life at any age.