"The millennial generation will have enormous influence in coming years, especially as they hold off on getting married and having children, the two biggest reasons for first-time home purchases," said Zillow chief economist Stan Humphries. "A lower homeownership rate because of these demographic shifts will have a ripple effect, keeping rents high and potentially impacting the broader economy if substantially fewer people pay property taxes and buy fewer home goods."
Millennials in general do intend to buy at some point, but the headwinds they face today are stronger than those faced by their parents and grandparents. First and foremost is employment.
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Among 25-to-34-year-olds, which is considered the prime age group for housing demand, employment fell to 75.6 percent in July from 75.8 percent in June and 76 percent at the beginning of the year, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics.
"Young-adult employment is less than halfway back to normal: Before the bubble, their employment-population ratio hovered in the 78-80 percent range," noted Jed Kolko, chief economist at Trulia, a real estate website. "Having a job matters for housing. Just 12 percent of employed 25-to-34-year-olds live with their parents, versus 20 percent of 25-to-34-year-olds without jobs."
Student loan debt is as large a deterrent, if not larger. loanDepot, an independent mortgage lender, examined applications for 46,000 borrowers looking to purchase a home between 2010 and 2014. It found that the median age of first-time buyers went from 34 to 36 years old.
It also found, when looking at borrowers with student loan debt, that with all other factors (debt, credit score) equal, the difference between those approved for a mortgage and those not approved was a monthly student loan payment of less than $300.
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While mortgage rates today are far lower than they were in previous decades, underwriting is far stricter than it was during the latest housing boom, and fees charged by government entities Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, which back the vast majority of new home loans, are taking a bite out of affordability.
Mortgage closing costs rose 6 percent over the past year and now average $2,539 on a $200,000 loan, according to a new report from Bankrate.com. Origination fees accounted for the bulk of the increase, jumping 9 percent, while third-party fees rose 1 percent.