Clinton has also been known to inflate and embellish. She claimed that she had landed under sniper fire in Bosnia (There was no such fire). She claimed she never sent or received classified material from her private email server (She did).
So, we can establish that both Trump and Clinton have fudged the facts. Beyond statements we can fact check, there are certain behavior and speech patterns that are common when people aren't being truthful:
1.They offer some form of certainty and reassurance — swearing to God, over-emphasizing truthfulness, etc.
2.They question the question. (Remember when Bill Clinton asked what the definition of "is" was?)
3. They dodge, duck and deflect.
4.They use "minimizing language" to suggest that what seems like a big problem is "no big deal."
5.They use "qualifying language like, "To tell you the truth…" or "In all honesty" or "As far as I know …"
With those pointers in mind, let's take a closer look at Clinton and Trump.
Overemphasizing truthfulness and using qualifying language ( No. 1 and No. 5) are favorites for Trump. One of his go-to phrases is "believe me." He has said: "We're going to build a wall. Believe me." And "[Obama] may be the worst thing to happen to Israel. Believe me."
As someone who specializes in deception, I'll tell you this much: When someone insistently implores "believe me," don't. Pleading "believe me" or "trust me" — insisting to people that you are telling the truth — is a tell-tale sign that you probably aren't.
No. 3, dodging and deflecting, was evident in Clinton's handling of her private email server controversy. In a press conference, she deflected a hard question:
QUESTION: Were you ever — were you ever specifically briefed on the security implications of using — using your own email server and using your personal address to email with the president?
CLINTON: I did not email any classified material to anyone on my email. There is no classified material. So I'm certainly well-aware of the classification requirements and did not send classified material.
What's provoking all the deception? With Clinton it is survival. But with Trump there is a more complicated narcissism. Narcissists have an insatiable need for flattery, for inflated self-worth and importance and for status symbols (big jets, buildings with TRUMP emblazoned across the top) that typically address tremendous feelings of weakness, fear and vulnerability that lie underneath all the bluster and grandiosity. A narcissist can become addicted to the steady stream of reassurance, overlooking reason, truthfulness and facts for the "fix" of reassurance.
A narcissist like Trump must constantly inflate and exaggerate in order to keep the supply trains running. He has to brag about how "I have a very high IQ" or concoct stories about people agreeing with him. This was particularly manifest recently, as Trump said that the NFL, Paul Ryan, and the Koch Brothers all reached out to him about various campaign issues. The NFL, Paul Ryan, and the Koch Brothers all denied Trump's claim.
New York Times columnist Nicholas Kristof wrote recently that putting Clinton and Trump in the same league, lie-wise, is preposterous. "If deception were a sport, Trump would be the Olympic gold medalist; Clinton would be an honorable mention at her local Y."
There's no honor amongst thieves or truth among liars. Clinton wins the honesty race, but with a bit of help from a deeply flawed and conceited opponent. Perhaps that's a prelude to November.
Commentary by Pamela Meyer, the author of "Liespotting: Proven Techniques to Detect Deception." Her TED Talk ranks in the top 20 of all time. Follow her on Twitter @Pamela_Meyer.
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